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The ”mystery method” method of seduction

The ”mystery method” is a way to seduce women designed by Erik von Markovik (Mystery). He has tried to design a method that works for a very broad group of men with different lifestyles. His method is described in the book ”The game” by Neill Strauss. You can learn more about this method through books, DVDs and even seminars with instructors and coaching.

Basic principles

The mystery method introduces the concept of ”value” to describe how you compare to other men in terms of reproductive opportunities and quality of life. The man with the highest value will have the best chance compared to other men. According to Mystery, women look for men with the highest quality of life.

The mystery method describes that people have strong emotional reactions to others with high value. Men will have a reaction to very attractive women. This reaction will lead to the release of adrenaline, which will cause them to behave abnormally around the attractive woman. This attractive woman is used to such reactions, because that’s how most men react to her. The mystery method claims that the attractive woman believes in her subconscious that men who do not exhibit this abnormal behavior are of higher value than her, causing her to become attracted to those men.
Many techniques learned in this method allow for demonstrating higher value. The entire method is built around the M3 model.

The M3 model

This model is made up of three parts: Attraction, comfort and seduction. These steps are described in detail with the ultimate goal of a sexual relationship.

Step 1: Attraction.

The purpose of this step is the opening, i.e. to start the conversation with the target. Furthermore, the higher value will have to be demonstrated to ensure that she is attracted to the man. The man must also show that he is increasingly attracted to the woman. But for reasons other than her appearance.

Step 2: comfortable.

In this phase, the man must demonstrate that there is a connection, trust and a sense of authenticity between him and the woman. According to Mystery, this step is the most important and often takes hours. About 90% of the time will be in this step.

Step 3: seduction.

The seduction phase is the introduction to the sexual relationship. In this phase the so-called ‘last minute resistance’ is also treated. Mystery hereby pleads for the woman to agree. For example: you’re right, we shouldn’t be doing this. To then move the situation to a less interesting activity such as card games.

Negs

Negs are comments or actions like:

  • ,Wait…, and pull a piece of ‘lint’ out of her hair.
  • Are those (finger)nails real?! They are/aren’t?! Well, they look very nice, anyway…,
  • Your nose wiggles when you talk! …It’s so cute! …Look at it! There it goes again!,
  • Looking at your mobile phone during the conversation.
  • Talk to a third party.
  • Looking around the room as if looking for someone you would rather talk to.

They are intended to lower the value of women compared to men. These are not insults, but comments that someone would make who is not sexually attracted to the woman.
A neg is an active action that demonstrates the man’s lack of interest in the woman. A good neg never makes a woman feel offended or belittled, because we don’t want that . It only makes the woman wonder whether or not the man is interested in her appearance.

Disqualification theory

This theory is an extension of the neg, it is based on the idea that what a woman cannot get is what the woman wants. Examples of this theory are:

  • If I weren’t gay, you’d so be mine.,
  • ,I’ve got something to tell you…there’s something in your teeth.,

 

Tips

Don’t go to a nightclub just to hit on women. Go there to have a nice evening, if your evening is not dependent on women, then you will be a lot more attractive and you will be more likely to succeed.