You are single and you see happy couples around you enjoying life. Which makes you realize that you are missing something. You want to share your life with the right one! You miss a buddy, someone to share your emotional bond with, someone with whom you can be addictively in love. You want to feel butterflies in your stomach! But how should you approach that? Do you love yourself enough? Do you believe you are worthy of being in love? Are you open enough to love? Do you radiate love? An overview:
Love yourself first
The harder you look for love, the greater the distance seems to be to actually find the love you are looking for. But what exactly are you looking for? What do you expect from love? Real love? Or a fleeting crush? A holiday love or a long-term relationship? Are you in love with yourself? Do you love yourself enough to receive and give love? If you care enough about yourself, you are able to give love to someone else.
Wonderful feeling to be in love
Do you miss the feeling that falling in love gives? Many bachelors and singles are looking hard for the true love of their life. Even though they may have had bad experiences in previous relationships. The wonderful feeling of being in love is addictive enough not to give up hope.
Addicted to love
There are people who are constantly looking for the feeling that falling in love gives them. They have become addicted to the feeling of happiness when they are in love. Realize that this cannot be a stepping stone to real true love. Here it is only about the kick that one gets from the addiction, as one always gets with an addiction and its drug.
Open yourself to love.
If, for whatever reason, you have built a large inaccessible wall around you, you are not susceptible to becoming infected with the infatuation virus. You will have to open up, make yourself more accessible to the outside world. Especially if you are looking for a crush that could grow into true love. Opening yourself up to love doesn’t happen in a day. Give it time.
Love and infatuation really comes naturally when:
- Open yourself up to your fellow man,
- You don’t put any energy into jealousy,
- You accept yourself as you are,
- You feel unconditional love for all living things,
- You help your fellow man in times of illness and loneliness,
- You show your kindness to the world every day,
- You show a radiant and sincere smile all day long,
- You believe in yourself and your own inner strength,
- Leave your feelings of selfishness (if applicable!) behind you once and for all,
- Celebrate your feelings of self-love and self-worth daily with all honesty,
- You accept life as it is, without whining and complaining,
- You are grateful for big, small and everyday things,
- You regularly spontaneously and voluntarily do something good for your fellow man,
- You are always sincere,
- Shows your warm feelings of affection to everyone,
- you live healthily,
- You don’t put any energy into unkindness,
- You feel peace in your heart,
- You are patient and tolerant,
- You don’t judge anyone,
- You are satisfied,
- Share your joy with others.
You receive love when you give love
Once you, consciously or unconsciously, convince yourself that you are worthy of receiving love, you will receive it. As soon as you, consciously or unconsciously, convince yourself that you are love and radiate love, you will receive love. What you radiate you will receive. You cannot possibly receive love if you do not give it to those around you. You cannot possibly receive what you do not give. Your own unique energy is consciously and unconsciously picked up by everyone and everything around you.
( If you secretly think: I will never succeed, you will indeed never succeed! You will receive what you radiate. You attract what you radiate. If you think: I am not worthy of falling in love, you will indeed truth and your reality: you will not receive love.)
Send the right signals
Men
For men who are looking for love and infatuation. Realize that women, in general, will not always be charmed by overly tough cocky behavior. Show yourself, show the behavior as you really are!
Women
For women looking for love and infatuation. Realize that men, in general, can pick up the wrong signals if the woman seems too nervous and tense. He may think she is too difficult to reach. No matter how difficult, always be yourself!
Dating sites
Dating sites very well meet the needs of the many bachelors and singles who are eagerly looking for true love. Especially in an era where communication increasingly takes place via technological channels and individualization reigns supreme, looking for true love via a dating site is a solution. There are fantastic romantic stories of people who have indeed found the right one through the Internet, but there are also terrifying stories. Be very careful!
Love is looking for you
Love will happen to you when you are ready for it. Suddenly you realize that you have the famous butterflies in your stomach and that you are in love. Sooner or later. Open yourself up to it.