What do I want? How do I become happy? How can I live with passion? What personal development do I need to go through to be happy? Which personal values contribute to bringing happiness into my life? What is really important in your life? Know yourself and know what you want!
What is important?
Everyone wants a life that really suits you. How do you create a life that really suits you? By first knowing what is really important in your life. What touches you? What touches you deeply? Which personal values score highly for you? Personal values are:
- Passions,
- Preferences and
- Interests.
Personal values
What are personal values? Personal values are those things and matters that really affect you deeply. For you that could be friendship, for someone else it could be music and yet another spirituality. Anyone who knows specifically which personal values are really important is able to organize their life as optimally as possible. What personal values are there? Some examples of the many hundreds of personal values are:
- Helping others,
- Balance,
- Creativity,
- Honesty,
- Money,
- Health ,
- Knowledge,
- Love,
- Power,
- Music,
- Status,
- Peace,
- Self-development and etc.
What do I want?
There are people who know exactly what they want. However, there are many people who have no idea what they want in their lives. It is important to look at your personal values. Personal values that used to be important to you may no longer be important. There are also people who think they know what they want, but that doesn’t make them happy. These are often people who are afraid of being rejected or not being liked.
Not happy
People who are guided by frustrations and fears are not happy. People who are guided by what others think of them are not happy. People who adopt personal values because they think they are expected to do so are not happy. It’s pointless, never good enough and it goes on forever. Fears and frustrations hang like a haze over your true personal values.
How do I become happy?
To become happy, you must discover what your true personal values are. How do you do that? Ask yourself the following:
- What do you think is important? What do you find really important in life?
- What do you find fascinating?
- What stirs you?
- What gives you energy?
- What gives you a genuine feeling of joy?
- What gives you a genuine sense of satisfaction?
Passion
Becoming happy and being happy with your life has everything to do with passion. Personal values are only really your personal values if they give you passion. Everyone has the right personal values if these personal values make you happy. You have your true personal values when you:
- Time completely forgets when you’re doing it,
- Feel the energy bubbling through your body when you are working on it,
- If you are permanently enthusiastic about it,
- If you feel cheerful, powerful and confident when you are doing it,
- If it evokes strong and vivid feelings in you when you are working on it,
- If it occupies your thoughts in a positive way.
Luck
The first step towards a meaningful and happy life has been taken. Knowing what you want is knowing what is important to you. That’s why it’s so important to first figure out which personal values are really important to you. Personal values that bring happiness to your life because you feel happy when you implement these personal values.