You are single and somehow looking for a nice lady. What things should you avoid because they really ruin your chances of getting a first date?
Obvious drunkenness
If you would like to meet someone, it is important to stay alert. Slightly tipsy is still possible, but is actually not recommended. However, if you ‘re drunk as hell, not many suitable candidates will find you attractive. Let alone that you are open to contact. And if you do meet someone, you probably won’t be able to reproduce her name and telephone number. If you are really seriously looking for a good date, make sure you remain clear. Consume a maximum of two alcoholic drinks so that you remain a pleasant, correct and attentive conversation partner. It could also be that you are someone who has a bad drink. Then you won’t find a nice partner at all.
Sensual dancing
Don’t do it. Thinking that you are a good dancer and supposedly dancing sensually against someone. This is one of the biggest turn-offs a woman in a catering establishment can experience. Just ask nicely if the lady in question wants to dance with you. Start with a civilized dance to show off your possible dance qualities. Consider the personal space that everyone needs. So in the beginning you give your dance partner enough space to feel comfortable. If there is a click, you can always ,slow down,.
Cursing or dirty jokes
Most women also use expletives sometimes. If you want to meet a nice girl, try not to be too rude. It is important that you show that you are well-mannered in the beginning of the relationship. Many women end up looking for a serious relationship. The idea is that they don’t have to feel ashamed if she ,shows, you off to her parents. Women in their thirties are looking for a father for their children. Swearing men usually don’t fit into this picture.
Rudeness
If you want to please a woman you have to behave like a gentleman. So stay polite to staff. Don’t make negative comments about other women’s appearance. Then it seems like you are always commenting on others or being mean.
Bad breath
Nothing is as effective at putting women off as bad breath. Make sure your teeth are clean and intact. If your teeth are damaged, go to the dentist immediately. Your face is one of the first things you notice. Just to be safe, always take some mints with you. If you do not take good care of your teeth, this is an indication for the rest of your body hygiene. You don’t have to be handsome, but good body care is essential if you want to be attractive to women.
Too much deodorant or aftershave
Be sparing with the scents. Shower, put on clean clothes and use a little deodorant. Do not spray your entire body. In addition, use a little aftershave after brushing your teeth and shaving. The idea is that the lady smells a hint of aftershave, mixed with your (clean) body odor. Too much deodorant or aftershave is deterrent.
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