You did it. You have a first date with a nice woman. How do you ensure that this first date ends positively and that more dates follow? What are some universal dating tips for men when you have a first date with a woman? Dating is bound by a number of unwritten rules. If you haven’t dabbled much in dating yet, extra tips never hurt.
Dating a lady: remove excessive hair
Most women spend a lot of time and money removing excess body hair. They wax the down on their upper lips, pluck their eyebrows and shave their armpit hair. Even the hair below the navel is taken into account. Many women remove the hair on their legs. We’re not even talking about other parts yet. The ladies can spend quite some time removing excess body hair. If you are going on a date, it is wise to look a bit groomed. Hair on the back is a turn-off for most women. Try to have this removed. You can remove ear hair or lush nose hair yourself. Opinions are divided about bushy eyebrows. See if you can polish this up a bit. Yet another misconception: wavy chest hair peeking out from under a shirt is not seen as attractive by every woman. On a first date, try to cover your chest hair as much as possible.
Dating: make sure you’re clean
Another unwritten rule of dating: take care of yourself! When you go out, make sure your head is freshly shaved. If you go out in the evening, take an extra shower, put on clean clothes and use a little deodorant. Brush your teeth and apply a decent amount of good quality aftershave after shaving. The aftershave should emphasize your body odor in a positive way, but should not overpower it. Most women prefer freshly shaven cheeks.
First date tips: clothes
You don’t have to dress according to the latest fashion, but it is important that your clothes are clean, intact and ironed. Take the time to iron your clothes before your first outing. Also make sure your shoes are intact and polished. Women spend a lot of money and effort on their shoes. So one of the first dating tips is that you should not wear worn-out shoes.
Dates by car
If you go out with the car, make sure it is clean. Clean up all the mess in the backseat, vacuum the car and visit the car wash. Most people hate clutter. Your car is associated with your personality. If your car looks a bit dirty, you won’t get much attention. Then dates with a car can give the lady an issue an undesirable image.
Relax before the date
Make sure you are relaxed for your first date. Don’t work until the very last minute. Do some exercise and then work on your grooming. You will then be relaxed, which promotes a positive atmosphere during your date.
Date tips: cleaning
Make sure your house or room is clean. Clean up the dishes in your kitchen, vacuum your house. Make sure your bathroom and toilet are clinically clean. And if that happens: make sure your bed is changed and made. This really is one of the most important dating tips. The ladies love care. If your house is a mess, there is a good chance that the lady in question will leave very quickly. A messy house is once again connected to a messy (and perhaps unkempt) person.
Check your reservations
Check the night before to see if your date is still available. You probably don’t think about anything else, but that doesn’t mean that the lady in question has the appointment in mind just as clearly. If you are sure that your date will go ahead, check the reservations at the restaurant, for example. It would be a shame if your date was disrupted due to incorrect reservations.
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